What should I do?
You know I really don’t like being wrong. So I had better explain what I mean because it’s all mixed up with what I should do and what I shouldn’t do. I have been going out with a boy for some time now and we would both like to get married at some time in the future. I say future because it will be some time before we are financially ready to do so. My parents however don’t think that my boyfriend will make a suitable husband for me. He does not have a lot of money and they think that I should marry someone that has plenty of money. It is not that they dislike my boyfriend in fact they think he is a very decent person, it’s just about money. I suppose I could find someone with money to marry but what happens to the love I feel for my boyfriend, does it just go away never to bother me again. I can’t and don’t want to believe that what I feel for him would go away that easily, surely it is not that simple. And what value does love have if it can be used in this way. So you can see my problem. If I marry my boyfriend it will be wrong, if I marry a man just for money it will be wrong…..and you know I really don’t like being wrong.